A: We must have determined that that member was a spammer or was otherwise in serious violation of our Terms of Use. In that case, that member's account was deleted from the database, and any messages sent by that member were also automatically deleted from the database.
This is only fair to members. A trial membership is
a Free 45-day membership which allows you to check out everything.
Q: I was notified that I'd received a message from another member, but when I checked my inbox that message was gone. Why?
A: We must have determined that that member was a spammer or was otherwise in serious violation of our Terms of Use. In that case, that member's account was deleted from the database, and any messages sent by that member were also automatically deleted from the database.